Tag: growth

  • Embracing the Generational Shift

    Embracing the Generational Shift

    Last week, my great-great uncle passed. He was the last of a generation. Suddenly, it occurred to me that I am on the path to becoming “the older people”. Don’t get me wrong, it is a blessing to wake up every morning! There is also the realization that the number of days behind me, likely exceed the number of days ahead. Middle adulthood is a phase of life marked by responsibility, wisdom, and the opportunity to influence future generations. Being the adults of this generation, in this culture, means navigating challenges unique to our time while anchoring ourselves in timeless biblical truths. As we grow older, our roles as stewards of God’s blessings, mentors to the younger generation, and servants in His kingdom become more pronounced. What does Scripture say about this sacred responsibility?

    1. Living as God’s Stewards

    Adulthood calls us to steward the resources, talents, and relationships God has entrusted to us. Whether it’s our time, finances, or spiritual gifts, we are accountable for using them wisely for His glory.

    In 1 Corinthians 4:2, Paul reminds us:
    “Now it is required that those who have been given a trust must prove faithful.”

    Faithfulness in stewardship means making decisions that honor God and benefit others. This includes providing for our families, investing in our communities, and being diligent in our work.

    2. Leading the Next Generation

    One of our primary responsibilities as adults is to guide and mentor the younger generation. In a world filled with competing values, they need godly examples who live out biblical principles with integrity.

    Psalm 78:4 emphasizes the importance of this role:
    “We will not hide them from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord, His power, and the wonders He has done.”

    As adults, we are called to teach the next generation about God’s faithfulness, equipping them to navigate life’s challenges with wisdom and faith.

    3. Pursuing Wisdom and Growth

    Adulthood is not the end of personal growth—it’s a time to deepen our relationship with God and mature in character. Proverbs 16:31 says:
    “Gray hair is a crown of splendor; it is attained in the way of righteousness.”

    This verse reminds us that growing older is a gift, not a burden. It’s an opportunity to gain wisdom and use it to guide others, reflecting God’s glory in our lives.

    4. Serving in the Kingdom of God

    As adults, our maturity equips us to serve in unique and impactful ways. Whether through leadership, discipleship, or acts of service, our lives should be a reflection of Christ’s love.

    In 1 Peter 4:10-11, we are encouraged:
    “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.”

    Adulthood is a season to step into God’s purposes with boldness, embracing the privilege of being His hands and feet in a broken world.

    Walking in Purpose

    Becoming the adults of this generation means more than simply growing older—it’s about growing in purpose. It’s about living as Christ’s ambassadors (2 Corinthians 5:20), taking on the mantle of responsibility with grace, and leaving a legacy that points others to Him.

    Let us rise to this calling, knowing that our work is not in vain when done in the Lord (1 Corinthians 15:58). May we embrace the responsibilities and opportunities of adulthood with faith, wisdom, and a heart for service.

  • Time for something different

    Time for something different

    I was talking to one of my sisters last night. She mentioned that it’s funny how our style changes over time. Specifically, the conversation was about home decor. I’ve always been a clean line,  minimalist girl. Her vibe growing up was a little more dramatic. I started thinking about how this is also true for relationships, especially friendships. As you mature in deed and thought, you learn most relationships are only for certain seasons of your life. That doesn’t mean you have to completely ditch your old friends. It’s just accepting how you relate to them in 2024 may not resemble how it did in 2004…and that’s OK!

    I feel like my current friends are in certain categories. I have some that I’ve bonded with over career, some over Jesus, others over academic endeavors, and some have that gift of giving life and laughs when you need them most. No matter what need your friends fulfill, it’s important to choose them wisely. The old folks say, “Watch the company you keep.” As you begin to realize that time is the most precious commodity we have, who we spend it with becomes of extreme importance. Proverbs 13:20 was the YouVersion verse of the day today.

    Are your friends wise or fools? Which friend are you??? I pray that I am the woman ready to give wise counsel to another when it’s needed. There are always moments where a little foolery may actually be good for us, but in general, I would advise to abide with the wise!