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  • Trust His Process

    Trust His Process

    I always knew academia would be part of my journey, but certainly not this soon and definitely not in the way it has unfolded. When I accepted an adjunct faculty role, I thought I would be supervising students in clinical settings and helping them connect classroom knowledge to patient care. What I didn’t anticipate was how much the role would stretch me. It has challenged me to think differently and discover fresh ways to teach concepts that many of us have practiced for years.


    One thing I have learned about myself is that I instinctively teach. I create resources. I ask questions. I engage students in conversations that help them understand the why behind what they are doing. In nursing, decision-making doesn’t truly mature until you understand the why. Anyone can memorize steps or complete assignments. The deeper challenge is developing clinical judgment; the ability to think critically, recognize patterns, and make sound decisions when someone’s life depends on it.


    As I work with students, my prayer is that they do more than simply check boxes on their way to graduation. Nursing is a rewarding profession, but it is also demanding, humbling, and at times downright brutal. The profession requires resilience, compassion, humility, and a commitment to lifelong learning. I want these future nurses to understand not only what they are doing, but why it matters. What I am beginning to see is that God is using this season to grow me as much as He is using me to teach others.


    Over the past two years, I made an intentional decision to stop tying my identity to my career. Like many professionals, I had spent years introducing myself by what I did rather than whose I was. Leadership roles, degrees, certifications, and accomplishments can become subtle measures of our worth, even idolatry, if we are not careful. This past week during Vacation Bible School, Dr. Tony Evans shared a reminder that resonated deeply with me; we are not our careers. We are citizens of heaven and disciples of Christ who happen to serve in various professional roles.


    That perspective changes everything.


    A nurse is not merely a nurse. A nurse is God’s representative in a healthcare setting so patients can see what the love, compassion, and care of God look like through human hands. A teacher is not merely a teacher. A teacher is God’s representative in a classroom so students can experience encouragement, wisdom, patience, and truth as they learn. Whatever role God places us in, He intends for us to reflect Him there.


    “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” – Colossians 3:23 NIV


    For many years, I tried to keep my professional life and spiritual life in separate compartments. Faith belonged at church. Work belonged at work. The more I study the life of Jesus, the more I realize He never lived that way. Jesus taught in synagogues, but He also taught on hillsides, at dinner tables, in boats, and while walking dusty roads. Ministry was not an event on His calendar; it was His way of life.
    The same needs to be true for us.


    “In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16 NIV


    Our faith was never meant to be reserved for Sundays. It is meant to influence every conversation, every interaction, every decision, and every opportunity God places before us. Whether we are leading a department, teaching a class, caring for a patient, or encouraging a struggling student, we are called to represent Christ. Looking back, I can see that this teaching role is not an interruption to my journey. It is part of God’s process. He is expanding my capacity, refining my perspective, and reminding me that kingdom impact is not determined by a title. It is determined by our willingness to faithfully represent Him wherever He places us. Sometimes God’s process doesn’t look like the plan we wrote for ourselves. But if we trust Him, we may discover that He is building something far greater than a career.


    He is building a disciple.

  • What’s it Gonna Cost?

    What’s it Gonna Cost?

    I’ve been on a journey lately; one that is exciting, purposeful, and honestly, a little eye-opening. Self-publishing has been sitting in my spirit for a while now, and as I’ve leaned into the process, one question rises to the surface: What’s it gonna cost? Not just in passion or time, but in real, tangible ways I hadn’t fully considered. If I truly want my work to reflect excellence and represent my brand well, it’s not free.

    There are licensing fees to consider (for content I feel is necessary to include). Graphic design matters more than I realized…covers, formatting, layout. Then there’s marketing, which is a whole world of its own. Even something as specific as purchasing my own ISBN comes with a cost, but it also comes with freedom; the freedom to publish on my own terms. And let’s not forget the details that elevate a book from good to beautiful: full-color printing, quality paper, the visual experience for the reader. These are the “hidden” costs, the ones you don’t always see coming, but they add up quickly.

    And yet, as I’ve been counting these costs, I can’t help but reflect on a much greater price that was paid; one that shifts my perspective completely. Scripture reminds us in Luke 14:28 (NIV), “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?” Planning matters. Awareness matters. But there’s also something deeper. That is understanding the weight of what it takes to bring something meaningful to life.

    When I think about cost, I think about Jesus.

    From the very beginning, His journey was marked by sacrifice. Born in humility, living a life of service…

    Misunderstood.

    Rejected.

    Ultimately, crucified.

    The cost of our salvation wasn’t hidden. It was heavy, visible, and intentional. Isaiah 53:5 (NIV) says, “But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities… and by his wounds we are healed.” And yet, the most beautiful truth in all of this is that what cost Him everything is offered to us freely. Romans 6:23 (NIV) reminds us, “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

    It’s humbling.

    Here I am, carefully calculating expenses to bring a book into the world; something meaningful, yes, but still temporary. Meanwhile, Jesus paid the ultimate price to give us something eternal. My costs may stretch me, challenge me, even surprise me, but they pale in comparison to the cost of His grace and loving kindness.

    So, as I move forward in this publishing journey, I’m learning to embrace both wisdom and perspective. Yes, count the cost. Yes, plan well. But also remember…some of the most valuable things in life require investment. The greatest gift we’ve ever received? That one was already paid in full.

    Now that’s a cost worth reflecting on.

  • Could It Really Be That Simple?

    Could It Really Be That Simple?

    Do you remember the movie National Treasure? At the end, Ben Gates (played by Nicolas Cage) pulls a delicate Meerschaum pipe from his pocket and declares, “The secret lies with Charlotte. Could it really be that simple?” And surprisingly, it was. That one intricate clue led him and his team to one of the greatest treasures ever found.

    That moment came back to me recently, and not by accident.

    I just completed a Discipleship and Evangelism course at my church, Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship. During our final class, we each shared reflections from our journey. Our instructor left us with this for our remembrance: “Discipleship is simple…others follow us as we follow Christ.”

    Simple.

    A few days before that class, I had written something strikingly similar in my journal: What the Lord asks of us under the new covenant is simple; it is the fight against the flesh and the principalities of darkness that makes it complex. But even the resolution for that is simple…seek, hear, listen, trust, and follow the Lord.

    Could it really be that simple?

    Scripture affirms that it is. In Micah 6:8 (NIV), we are reminded: “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” Clarity, not complication. Walk humbly. Follow closely.

    Yet, if we’re honest, it rarely feels simple. There is a daily tension between what we know is right and what we feel pulled toward. Galatians 5:17 (NIV) explains it well: “For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want.” The complexity isn’t in God’s instruction, it’s in our resistance, our distractions, and the very real spiritual battle we face.

    God does not leave us without a clear path forward. Like the Meerschaum pipe that seemed small but pointed to hidden treasure, God’s Word may appear simple, yet it holds the exact direction we need to uncover the fullness of His purpose.

    Seek. “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart” (Jeremiah 29:13, NIV).
    Hear. “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me” (John 10:27, NIV).
    Trust. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart…” (Proverbs 3:5, NIV).
    Follow. “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me” (Luke 9:23, NIV).

    This is the “pipe,” so to speak—the simple yet powerful pathway that leads us to the true treasure: a life aligned with Christ. Discipleship isn’t about mastering complexity; it’s about modeling consistency. Others don’t need perfection to follow, they need direction. And that direction becomes clear when our lives reflect a steady pursuit of Jesus.

    So maybe the question isn’t whether it’s simple.

    Maybe the question is: Will we follow the simple path with faithful obedience?

    Because just like in National Treasure, the clue may seem small…
    but it leads to something far greater than we could ever imagine.

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  • Handcrafted by the Creator

    Handcrafted by the Creator

    Reflections from the Chihuly Garden & Glass Museum

    Yesterday, my sister and I decided to take advantage of a beautifully sunny and cloudless fall day in Seattle. It was the first time I was able to visit the Chihuly Garden and Glass Museum. Walking through the museum is like stepping into a living kaleidoscope. Every curve of glass, every swirl of color, every beam of light refracted through a hand-blown vessel tells a story of creativity, patience, and purpose. As I stood beneath Dale Chihuly’s massive glass installations—delicate yet bold, fragile yet strong—I couldn’t help but think of how beautifully this mirrors God’s handiwork in us.

    Each piece of glass begins formless and colorless, shaped by fire into something breathtaking. The glassblower’s breath gives it life and direction, much like God’s breath of life infused meaning and purpose into humanity (Genesis 2:7). No two pieces are identical, and even the tiny imperfections add to their beauty. Psalm 139:13-14 (NIV) also reminds us, “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” In the studio, the artist must trust the process. High heat, turning pressure, and time allows the glass to reach its full brilliance. Isn’t that true for us as well? Life’s heat and pressure refine our character. They teach us patience, humility, and resilience. What may feel like breaking is often shaping.

    Jesus reminded His followers in Luke 12:7 (NIV), “Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” That verse resonated deeply as I watched the glowing glass cool into perfection. God’s care for us is just as detailed, intentional, and loving. We are not mass-produced souls; we are one-of-a-kind masterpieces. Like the glass suspended in Chihuly’s galleries, we were designed to reflectlight, not our own, but the radiant light of Christ. Each of us refracts His glory in different colors, textures, and stories. The beauty of the kingdom is in its diversity of vessels, all made by the same Master Artist.

    Call to Action

    The next time you walk through a gallery, a garden, or even your daily routine, take a moment to marvel at the craftsmanship around you. Whisper a prayer of gratitude to the Creator who shaped you with intentional love. Then, let His light shine through you, reflecting grace, kindness, and purpose wherever you go.

    Remember: You are God’s masterpiece, hand-blown by His own breath.

  • Everlasting Life

    Everlasting Life

    Remembering Shelley Bailey

    Yesterday morning I attended the memorial service of a formal colleague and friend. Every so often in life, you meet someone who truly has a beautiful soul. Shelley was one of those people. Her smile would light up a room. She consistently put the needs of others before her own. She was a loved wife, mother, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend to many. During the service, I became hyper aware of a number of things. First, who will write my obituary? How long will it be…my immediate family is massive? Maybe I should work on that myself right now. I mentioned it to my sister, and she told me she would not accept it before age 70. What would the vibe be? Would I want my body present or grave burial? All these random thoughts entered my mind as we celebrated Shelley’s life. I drew my attention back to the service and briefly settled into sadness because she is no longer physically present. However, it was short lived, as a level of palpable peace and hope arose in the building because of her faith in Jesus. Though her absence was deeply felt, there is comfort in knowing that she is now with the Lord.

    The Bible assures us that those who believe in Jesus will have eternal life. John 11:25-26 (NASB) says, “Jesus said to her, ‘I am the resurrection and the life; the one who believes in Me will live, even if he dies, and everyone who lives and believes in Me will never die. Do you believe this?’” Her faith in Christ means she is now in His presence, free from pain and sorrow. That is the real victory…accepting Jesus into our hearts that we may gain eternal life.

    For those who want to accept Jesus as their Lord and Savior, here are simple steps:

    1. Believe in Jesus – Trust that He is the Son of God and that He died for your sins. Romans 10:9 (NASB) says, “If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.”
    2. Repent of Your Sins – Turn away from sin and seek to follow God’s ways. Acts 3:19 (NASB) says, “Therefore repent and return, so that your sins may be wiped away.”
    3. Pray and Invite Jesus into Your Heart – Talk to God, confess your faith in Him, and ask Him to lead your life.
    4. Read the Bible and Pray Daily – Grow in your faith by spending time with God.
    5. Find a Church Community – Surround yourself with believers who can encourage you.

    Though our loved one is no longer here, her faith in Jesus assures us that we will see her again.

  • Martin Luther King Jr. Day: A Reflection

    Martin Luther King Jr. Day: A Reflection

    Although I was born post-Civil Rights Movement, I grew up with an awareness of Dr. King’s sacrifices and am inspired by his enduring legacy. Today we pause and reflect on the transformative vision of Dr. King—a man whose faith, courage, and love for humanity changed the course of history.

    Dr. King’s work and message remain deeply relevant today. His fight for justice, equality, and unity calls us to examine our own hearts and actions. As Christians, we are reminded of Micah 6:8, which says: “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” Dr. King embodied this mandate through his unwavering commitment to justice, his deep compassion, and his humble leadership.

    Here are three things we should remember about Dr. King and his fight for humanity:

    1. The Power of Love and Nonviolence
      Dr. King taught us that love is the most powerful force for change. Drawing from Jesus’ teachings in Matthew 5:44—“Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you”—he showed that nonviolent resistance could dismantle systems of hatred and oppression. His example challenges us to respond to injustice not with anger or bitterness but with love that transforms.
    2. The Call to Unity
      Dr. King envisioned a world where the barriers of race, class, and prejudice would crumble, allowing people to live as equals. This vision reflects Galatians 3:28: “There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” As we honor his legacy, we must ask ourselves: Are we building bridges or walls in our relationships, communities, and nation?
    3. Faith in Action
      Dr. King’s faith was not passive; it was bold and active, moving him to take risks for the sake of justice. James 2:26 reminds us: “Faith without works is dead.” Dr. King’s example encourages us to live out our faith in tangible ways, whether through speaking out against injustice, mentoring the next generation, or serving those in need.

    As we celebrate Martin Luther King Jr. Day, let us not merely remember his achievements but commit to carrying his torch forward. His fight for humanity calls us to examine our own roles in God’s plan for justice and reconciliation. We are called, as Dr. King once said, to be “a thermostat that transforms the mores of society,” not just a thermometer that passively reflects its conditions.

    May his legacy inspire us to act justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with our God.

  • Paint the world pink

    Paint the world pink

    Before the month is out, I want to take some time to talk pink. October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Despite the marvels of modern medicine, the incidence of breast cancer remains high in the United States, with breast cancer mortality rates disproportionately affecting black women. The Susan G. Komen Foundation website is a wealth of knowledge for all things breast cancer. On a more personal note, navigating the journey of breast cancer—whether it affects you personally or someone you love—brings a whirlwind of emotions. I am a witness to both the heartbreak of losing a loved one and the joy of seeing someone overcome this disease. Both are profound experiences.

    I lost a friend to breast cancer. She was in her mid-40’s, had a strong marriage, and amazing kids. She would give me the best pep talks. I miss her dearly and to this day, I ask God, “Why her?” I find comfort in Psalm 34:18, which says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” In the midst of the pain, I picture God’s presence never leaving her or her family. He was there in the silence, in the tears, in the prayers that seemed to have no answers. Grief is not something to rush through; it’s something to walk through. There is comfort knowing we do not walk alone.

    Conversely, I have a friend with a family history, and she’s been on top of it all our adult lives. She is a breast cancer survivor and a true overcomer. John 16:33 reminds us of Jesus’ words, “In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” It’s not that survivors don’t face challenges—they do. The emotional, physical, and spiritual toll can be immense. But God gives strength in every battle, every chemo session, every tear shed in fear or exhaustion. Through it all, life after breast cancer is a testimony of God’s faithfulness and we can find peace knowing He holds every outcome in His hands.

    So, if you’re in the middle of this battle—whether grieving or fighting—know that God is near. He’s your strength when you feel weak, and He’s your comfort when your heart is heavy. The ups and downs of this journey can be overwhelming, but He promises to be with us through it all, making us overcomers in Christ.

    What are some practical tips you can do today?

    • Know your risk factors
    • Follow the recommended prevention tips
    • Complete your monthly breast self-examinations
    • Complete your annual mammograms
    • Say prayers of healing for yourself and/or others
    • Volunteer or participate in your local breast cancer awareness events/ministry
  • Hurricane Season

    Hurricane Season

    I’m not sure if I ever shared that I grew up in Southeastern Louisiana. Hurricane season has always been a thing, although it seemed a lot more fun as a kid. Since 2005, the year Hurricane Katrina rolled over into the gulf and turned into a monster before hitting the gulf coast, I make it my business to follow hurricane tracks until I know FOR CERTAIN my peeps are safe. When I moved to DFW, part of the reason I bought more house than I needed was for it to act as a refuge for my family during hurricane season because evacuating can get expensive. AND being without a/c, water, or access to gas and food during the summertime in the south is torture. It is still rather early in the season, especially for storms to hit the Gulf of Mexico. Yet, here we are.

    Hurricane Beryl made landfall on the Texas gulf coast this morning and is tracking its way inland through eastern Texas. I’ve always been fascinated with how some parts of the storm have the worst winds, while others have the worst rain…maybe a tornado, the calmness in the eye, and depending where the storm lands, outcomes range from uncomfortable to catastrophic. An old co-worker of mine is from the island of Grenada, where her parents were still residing when Beryl made its initial landfall. Complete devastation. Millions more will be affected in the days to come.

    Ironically, as Beryl treks north through the somewhat middle of the nation, the east and west coasts are experiencing record heat. Accompanying the heat in the west, wild fires. I always find it strange that hurricane season & wildfire season coincide. They never cross paths. Both leave trails of destruction. No matter where you are in the world, will you show kindness and say a little prayer (pick a community or geographic area) for the people who are experiencing storms during this season? Sending love & prayers of safety for you all.